The following is a excerpt from an article by Dr. Robert J. Smith, PH.D. entitled "What Sports Teach Children About Life."  Dr. Smith is a licensed psychologist and resides in Wellesley.  We feel these tips encompass the philosophy of Wellesley Youth Basketball.

Tips for Parents & Coaches

Getting the Most Out of Sports for Kids

• Be good role models – don′t swear, or in other ways show poor sportsmanship; let your behavior serve as an example.
• Redefine winning & losing – place a priority of effort and reaching maximum potential as individuals and as a team; players have less control over the final outcome of a game or match.
• See opponents as comrades, not enemies – emphasize competing against yourself; opponents are just there to help you do this.
• Encourage cooperation – push teamwork, discourage selfishness, set up situations where different sexes/races of children depend on each other for success.
• Keep sports in perspective  - nurture a well-rounded identity for kids; support their sport & non-sport interests equally, as this fosters an identity as a total person, not just an athlete.
• Be positive whenever possible – critical comments can hurt more than help: give a compliment first, then add what they can do to improve, followed by why doing this will help them.
• All kids were not created equally – differences among kids require different ways of treating them; appreciate their individual strengths, and help them develop at their own pace.
• Don′t confuse hearing with listening – listen to athletes′ needs & concerns; their worries may seem trivial at times, but let them know you understand and support them.
• Make sports fun – show kids how to laugh off mistakes; don′t emphasize winning: let them appreciate the process of playing sports, not just the outcome; coaches need to be creative and find ways to make practices/games fun for players.